EIGHT THINGS A PASTOR’S WIFE MUST NEVER DO UNLESS SHE WANTS TO DESTROY HER MINISTRY AND MARRIAGE WITH THAT OF HER HUSBAND:
If some women know what is good for them, they should not have married a Pastor in the first place, because the life they want to live will negatively affect both of them, their families and the Ministry God committed into the hands of herself and her husband.
You can’t accept to be married to a man called with a SPECIFIC MANDATE, and want to do things that will amount to him deviating from his ORIGINAL MANDATE.
Dear Woman of God, never go close to these EIGHT AREAS, otherwise, you will have yourself to be blamed. Those who tried it regretted it.
1. NEVER YOU HAVE ANY SPIRITUAL FATHER OR MOTHER HE DOES NOT APPROVE OF:
If you truly understand scripture, your husband should be your Pastor, your Father, your Prophet and your Mentor, unless he is not born again, or a novice.
But where you are favoured to have one that is spiritually blessed, be focused with him.
Some of these Spiritual Fathers your husband is trying to prevent you from, he knows them more than you do.
2. NEVER YOU ATTEND ANY PASTORS’ WIFE MEETING OR CONFERENCE HE DOES NOT APPROVE OF:
Always believe in his judgement.
Your husband’s messages are good enough for you.
Get his tapes and feed your spirit. Don’t always want to drink from a stream your husband don’t believe in.
3. NEVER ACCEPT INVITATION TO PREACH ANYWHERE WITHOUT HIS CONSENT:
You are under his covering, your husband knows certain things about certain places.
Always consult him. It will save you.
A Pastor’s wife died, on the same trip her husband told her not to embark upon.
4. NEVER BE CLOSE TO ANY MAN OR MAN OF GOD HE IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH:
It is better for you to be over protected, than for you to be under protected.
5. AVOID ALL KINDS OF MINISTRY AND VISION THAT WILL DIVIDE THE BOTH OF YOU:
Find a way to submit your vision under his vision.
Do something about the children’s church, the women’s ministry and office setting.
You have so much to do under him.
You must not always think outside his operations.
6. NEVER REPORT HIM TO HIS FRIENDS OR OTHER MEN OF GOD:
If you know the damage some Men of God have done to the homes of gullible Women of God, you will just quietly manage your own problem.
It must not always be Pastors you must report him to, apart from his Spiritual Father, you may regret it.
7. NEVER GO TO A DIFFERENT LOCATION IN THE NAME OF MINISTRY AND ABANDON YOUR HUSBAND SOMEWHERE:
Unless he is no longer useful to you, living apart for the sake of ministry is not a sin but may lead to sin.
8. NEVER INVOLVE YOURSELF IN ANY BUSINESS THAT WILL CONSTANTLY BRING YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND INTO CRISIS WITH PEOPLE:
Some Pastors’ wives use their influence over their husband and the entire church to jump into all kinds of business investments, in the name of making money through the souls God committed into their hands.
Your Members are your Followers and NOT your Customers.
A Pastor and his wife are still trying to recover from the money-investment-scheme they brought their followers into.
A Pastor’s wife was arrested the other day for helping a member to invest a huge amount of money in an investment that later crashed.
Apart from opening schools, working with your husband as a full-time Pastor in the Ministry and getting a secular Job, becareful how you venture into business using the members God gave you, as your customers.
People always make regrettable mistakes.
Make impart, money will flow.
It is as simple as that.
Thanks for reading.
Delta State Nigeria.