Matthew 18: 7. Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh!
Watch out for this Menace call offence, it can ruin a precious relationship. Do you your best to stay off offence because it must come. As long as you are living in the world of human being get ready for offence! Don’t allow it to spoil your precious relationship.
People learn this late, they are too quick to cut off people.
It is childish and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrong and then start keeping grudges as a result.
Grow above it.
Someone did not invite you for their wedding, you pick offence with them.
Someone didn’t wish you happy birthday, you pick offence with the Person
They didn’t like your Facebook Post, you pick offence.
They didn’t support you in a disagreement you had with someone, you pick offence with them.
They said No to your request, you pick offence and malice start like a bicycle.
You asked them for money, they said they didn’t have it, you pick offence with them.
You are even keeping a record of people who brought gifts to your wedding, so you can know who to pick offence with. Hah.
See, Everyone is busy!!!
Everyone has their battles you are not aware of.
Those who you need help from are also looking for help.
Not everything is Personal and intentional
Not everyone hates you.
People will forget about you, not wish you a happy birthday, promise you and fail you, not join your group, doesn’t mean they don’t like you, sometimes People are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, and human weaknesses/limitations.
Learn how to manage being disappointed by People and still be on talking terms with them, it’ll save you a lot of UNNECESSARY grudges and beefing and save you some FRIENDSHIPS You’ll need in Future.
Grow above offences!