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GOD’S COMMANDMENTS TO HUSBAND IN FAMILY LIFE

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TOPIC : GOD’S COMMANDMENTS TO HUSBAND IN FAMILY LIFE

Scripture :Ephesians 5: 25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter with the word. Yesterday, we looked at God’s commandments to wives. Today we are considering God’s commandments to husband in family life!

It is obedient to Divine commandments that makes you a commander in life! Commandments/instructions are keys to high flyers.

You don’t fly aeroplane by guessing it is by instructions. If the plane flys by instructions then the plane of marriage flys by Divine instructions! The wife has her own instruction which is submission and the husband was given the command to love his wife.

Ephesians 5: 25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

When you look at the above scripture, you will notice, husband’s love to the wife is compared to the love of Christ to the church.

So, to what extent is the love of Christ to the church? It is to the point of dying for her. Marriage is a mystery because it picture the love that exists between Christ and the church

It is quite unfortunate that many tongue talking husband fails in this regards as some have turn their wives into a punching bag.! So wife beater, abusive husbands sure lack knowledge of the word of God.

I’m aware there are culture that support wife abuse, but every culture that negate the word of God must be put aside.

God’s command is to love the wife unconditionally!

There is a dimension of God place in the woman, to receive love!

Also there’s a dimension of God wired into the man to give love! As a man, If you understand this dimension and follow it up, your family life will be heaven on earth.

The lack of knowledge of the word of God the manual for life has make so many marriages a bitter pill. It is necessary that every man acquire knowledge.

The Bible said :

1 Peter 3: 7. Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

Living with a wife, required knowledge, if you don’t have this knowledge , and complying with it even your prayer can be hinder! So every man must know how to love his wife.

According to Dr. Garry Chapman, there are five love languages which can help you manifest love to your wife.

They includes :


1. Words of affirmation: This is affirming and reaffirming your love towards your wife.
As a husband, Hold your wife’s hands and look straight into her eye ball and say to her “I love you”! Shower your praise at your wife. This is in accordance with the scripture :


Song of Solomon 2: 14. O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice; for sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely.

There are times she will dress up and be waiting for your endorsement and comments on her dress.

Tell she is the queen of your life! Infact if every body commend her and her husband has not, she will not feel fulfil.

So husband, God kept you in that relationship to express love to your wife through the word of your mouth.
However, It is worthy of note that not all women will Feel love by words of affirmation, hence you must study your wife like a book and know what is her own love language.

2. The act of service : This the second love language! There are women who complain my husband says he love me but have never help me. To them it is act of service that will fill up their love tank.

Husband learn to give your wife, a little help here and there.

Don’t seat down and watch TV while your wife is struggling to fix the meal. Go to her and ask is there any thing I can do for you? Give her a helping hand and you will be speaking her love language. Also note that not every woman accept the act of service.


Remember this: Heaven is real and hell is real. To escape destruction and eternity in hell, give your heart to Jesus today.

Prayer points:
– Father thank you for your word to me today,
– Father, I receive grace to love my wife unconditionally in Jesus name.

Prophetic Declaration :
-I prophesy love revolution in every homes in the name of Jesus.
– To the un-married, I declare you will not miss it in marriage in Jesus mighty name.

From your brother Alex
God bless you.

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