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Scripture: Proverbs 8: 6. Hear; for I will speak of excellent things; and the opening of my lips shall be right things.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter!

We have been looking at keys to maintaining relationships as this has become paramount to us as believers. And today we shall consider more keys to maintaining relationships.

What are the keys to maintaining strategic relationships?

1. Honour
2. Tolerance
3. Avoiding offence
4. Practicing advance Forgiveness

5. Communication; Just as communication is the life wire of Marriage relationship, so also it is applicable to every other relationships.

Some one whom you are not in talking terms with, can not be your destiny helpers! You must learn to communicate frequently with the one whom God has sent into your life. To refuse to communicate is to close your own door without knowing gradually.

To some of us we have problem with feedback in communication, some it is with listening, we don’t know how to listened.

For the Bible says:

Proverbs 8: 6. Hear; for I will speak of excellent things; and the opening of my lips shall be right things.

Beloved, we must learn to listen when someone is talking and we must learn to talk as well!

Communication is skill that you must master if you want to maintain relationships.

To the females folks who are blessed with verbal power, please learn to open your mouth with wisdom (Prov. 31:26).

Don’t say it the way you see it! If you succeeded in winning argument and lost a quality relationship of what use is it to you?

This is why you must trust God for wisdom in speech making.

Proverbs 15: 1. A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

2. Avoid envy and competitive jealousy(Matt.27:18): The Pharisee could not maintain relationships with Jesus because of envy and competitive jealousy! One thing you must understand about life is that it has a way of placing people into their class. The fact that we graduated the same day does not mean we must get job the same time.

Even if we get married the same day that does not mean we must get children at the same time. We may start business or ministry at the same time that does not mean we must make progress the same rate.

So the idea of avoiding some person because you feel insecure with their level of success is foolishness. If you have a childhood friend who is now at the top and is doing well in life don’t allow envy to make you loose relationship with him/her! The idea that he/she is my younger ones should be shelf aside! Age factor should not hinder you from building a Destiny relationship that will help your life.

Some ladies have lost their life partner because they assumed the fellow does not meet up with their class! And don’t allow I know him when he was nobody to make you develop jealousy unnecessary. Rather avoid jealousy, avoid envy, life has a class for everyone and it will certainly place you in your class no matter what you do.

Instead of dying in envy and jealousy over your friends or relations whom God has lift, go close and maintain relationship with him or her. If you allow envy you may be at the loosing end. For the Bible said:

Proverbs 27: 4. Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy?

In some family, the only person that God has lifted up out of poverty has been killed by hired assassin’s by members of the same family, because of of jealousy and envy Can you imagine the only candle of the family is put out while the family remain darkness of hardships.

Remember this: Heaven is real and hell is real! Those that reject Jesus Christ and atoning work will have themselves to blame in hell.

Prayer points:

– Father thank you for your word to me today.
– Lord I receive grace for effective communication and shun envy and jealousy in Jesus name.

Prophetic Declaration:

– I Prophesy the wisdom of how to talk recieve it now in the name of Jesus.
– For every relationship that you have lost due to carelessness, may the mercy of God restore them back to you in Jesus name.

From your brother Alex
God bless you.

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