SOME MEN: YOUR WIFE IS CRYING AND YOU ARE COMFORTABLE – Dr Paul Enenche

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GOD SHOULD HAVE MADE MEN CARRY PREGNANCY ONCE SO THEY CAN APPRECIATE THEIR WIVES BETTER

SOME MEN: YOUR WIFE IS CRYING AND YOU ARE COMFORTABLE

SOME MEN ARE DRIVING AND THEIR WIVES ARE STANDING BY THE ROAD LOOKING FOR TAXI.

YOU SHOULD TREK AND SHE DRIVES

YOUR WIFE IS DRESSED AND YOU DON’T KNOW HOW SHE CAME ABOUT THAT DRESS. IT DOESNT BOTHER YOU

IF YOU ARE IN THE CITY OF ABUJA OR LAGOS OR PARIS ENJOYING YOUR LIFE; LIVING IN POSH HOUSES AND GOING TO FIVE STAR RESTAURANTS , FEASTING AND YOUR PARENTS IN THE VILLAGE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT TO EAT: YOU ARE UNDER A CURSE; YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTING A BLESSING.

THE FOOD THAT I’LL EAT, THAT MY WIFE AND CHILDREN CANNOT EAT, MAY IT NEVER CROSS MY MOUTH.

LET YOUR WIFE HAVE GOODWILL FOR YOU. LET YOUR CHILDREN RISE UP AND SAY, ‘THIS MAN IS A GOOD MAN.’

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LET THE NEEDY AROUND YOU BLESS YOU AND THEN, NO MATTER WHAT THE devil TRIES TO DO AGAINST YOU, IT CAN NEVER SUCCEED.

You want God to bless you, you must be a blessing to your family and I have two ways here:

a). Blessing to parents.
Genesis 24:1-4, Ephesians 6:1-3
Obey your parents – submit to their instructions. Honour means, allocate value to them.

You know when you go and give a seminar somewhere as a speaker, they give you what they call honorarium; honorarium your father and mother. Why?

Because they brought you forth into this world. Be a blessing to your parents, those who brought you into the world.

b). Blessing to dependants, wife and children (1 Timothy 5:8). I want to be very blunt now, let me start from parents; you are in the City of Abuja or Lagos or Paris enjoying your life; living in posh houses and cars, going to five, six, seven stars restaurant, feasting.

Your mother and your father in the village are looking for what to eat, you are under a curse; you are not attracting a blessing.

You are just moving up and down; you can spend ten thousand, hundred thousand for friends, for people who have no bearing with your life, for those who may even want to kill you if they have the opportunity and your mother is begging for food, your father is begging for what to eat, it is a curse; not a blessing.

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My mother and my father were placed on monthly allowance apart from raw food; my father didn’t need my allowance. My father had money before I was born; brand new Mercedes cars, brand new everything but I had to obey scripture.

One day, I came home and I gave my father some things and he looked at all the things I gave him and he said; “look, have you ever heard of so and so person?” He began to mention ministers of the Gospel that he knew in the world.

“Have you ever heard of so and so person? You will be greater than that one. Have you ever heard of this one? You will be bigger than that one.” One day, I came after blessing my mother with some things, she said it is not with your eyes that you will see your enemies. You will not notice their plans. That is, they have perished before you know what they were planning. He didn’t borne you for witch.

There are people, no blessing is speaking for them; spiritual father is not blessing them, earthly father, earthly mother is not blessing them, the poor are not blessing them; nobody is blessing them and they are wondering why they are like that.

Listen, let me take you to another level; you are enjoying your life and your wife and children are suffering, that is a curse. Your wife dressed and you don’t know how she came about the dress and it doesn’t bother you; you don’t know the last time you bought her shoe, dress, scarf and you are in the same house; wife is standing on the road looking for taxi, you are enjoying your car driving – you should trek, let them drive. People don’t know the way of the blessing. The food that I’ll eat, that my wife and children cannot eat, may it never cross my mouth. The money that I’ll have that wife and children will not taste, will never enter my hand.

One day, you know my wife and I, we wear dress together. So I picked up one dress to wear and she didn’t have that colour, many of you think that she is the one who picks the dress for me. No, I’m the one who pick first, including this pink one. I’m the one who organize all the things, you can ask her, she will tell you. People thought, this woman is dressing up this man ooo. Well, she’s trying her best. I’m the one who pick first, then she look for what will match what I have picked. That’s the way it works.

So, I said to her, “What about the one you are to wear with me?” She said, “Oh no, I can’t even find the colour that will match this? I said, “What? You don’t have colour to match with this? What is the price of one? Buy ten.”
Some people are saying, “I wish I’m the one.” Don’t wish ooo, you need to understand what she has passed through to be here – fire.

I don’t know how people can be comfortable that your wife is crying and you are okay. Your children, it is time for school fees and you are shouting, are you mad? Is that insanity? I’m sorry for saying that but only crazy people shout all the time. It’s not a blessing.

Now, listen to this; I’m saying this with all sense of responsibility, except you are in a situation where a devil is attacking you and your resources and you are struggling to help out and you don’t have the means and your wife is working or doing a lot of things and helping the family; you can be prayed for and that situation can be arrested.

But when you deliberately leave the burden of your home for your wife to run, you are not a blessing and you are never experiencing the blessing of the Lord. You are licking hand with soup that you didn’t buy, swallowing akpu that you didn’t supply and you are complaining that food is not enough and you did not know how the money came, oh my God, I can’t understand somethings. This is scripture and they are pursuing contracts, it’s not working. They are pursuing everything, it’s not working; God is seeing the tears of your wife, He’s seeing the complains of your children, He’s seeing that your household, they are not happy and you are not making any effort. What I’m preaching now, I can’t dare preach it if that is not my practice.

God has blessed you, place your wife on allowance. Let me tell you something; if you are receiving one hundred thousand a month and your wife is receiving one million a month, which means she has more money than you; you still do your best to make available what you can and I can assure you something, if you are to give your wife ten thousand naira out of that one hundred thousand, it is more valuable to her than her one million naira salary (Women are saying, God bless you man of God!).
It is more valuable to your wife than her one million naira salary. Why? “Husband gave me, husband loves me, my husband is not earning so much but the little he has, he’s caring” and every understanding wife will spend and spend themselves. They won’t complain about household money or anything; they will spend and overspend themselves.

Take it easy; let’s make it easy for God to bless us. Let’s make it easy for the scripture to work in our lives. I can never ask my wife, “so what’s your own contribution to food money, what’s your own contribution to children’s school fees?”

She has already tried. When she went to labour room, I didn’t go. When she carried that weight for nine months, I didn’t carry. I think God should have made men to carry pregnancy once. If men carry pregnancy once, the world will finish; they won’t go again. They will shout on the nurses; “Oga cooperate”
Response: “You too cooperate! Remove this baby now!

What kind of rubbish is this? I need my life back.
If baby should wake them up, the baby will die of hunger. Wake them up in the night to suck; “Get out my friend. I was living my life before you came. If you are crying, cry. Any cry you want, you are on your own. You can’t destroy my life.”

If we are able to put ourselves in the shoes of others, we will be able to do well. Please, this thing that we are saying and we are laughing about it, but it is a major secret of being blessed. Let your wife have goodwill for you. Let your children rise up and say, “this man is a good man.” Let your father in the Lord say, you are a good son, a good daughter.

Let the needy around you bless you and then, no matter what the devil tries to do against you, it can never succeed.
– I prophesy to somebody here, no power of witchcraft shall succeed against you!

Pastor Paul Enenche on ‘SECRETS OF FINANCIAL BLESSING OVERFLOW’ PART 5
Combined Service, Dunamis International Gospel Centre.

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