WARNING SIGNS WHEN CHOOSING A PARTNER
There are certain attitudes and character that may be difficult to handle in marriage.
It’s better to avoid people who exhibit such attitudes rather than get entangled for the rest of your life.
When choosing a life partner, be wary of anyone who is:
Such people are a government unto themselves. They are not answerable to anybody and often cannot be called to order.
This is a huge red flag, especially with men. Any man who wants to lead a home should have a father or mentor-figure. One who hasn’t mastered the art of following cannot be a leader.
Avoid people who are largely irresponsible and non-committed to the relationship. Such people are usually blame-shifters with a huge sense of entitlement.
Remember marriage is a union of two people that requires 100% investment of time, effort, and resources to make it work.
Marrying someone who is uncommitted will leave you steering that marriage alone.
- ANGRY AND VIOLENT
These are the most unpredictable people as they can hurt you when they are having an anger episode.
They are usually violent, destructive and thrive on fear.
- BITTER AND UNFORGIVING
Avoid a partner whose heart is full of grief. They’re usually carrying this baggage either from a past relationship or flawed childhood.
Such people hold grudges, are unforgiving and use emotional blackmail as a manipulative tool.
They can also take drastic decisions that may ruin a marriage.
My goal is to help you achieve marital success & sexual fulfilment in marriage.